Mothers

I am wondering how children can treat there mothers like they are worthless. When I was 17 my mom was murdered. Till this day I miss her. And to listen to people treating there moms bad just makes me very angry. Granted,mothers aren't perfect. Yes they do make mistakes,but someday you will need them and they will be there, but they will never forget the way you are treating them. If you are mad at them because of a divorce it isn't your place to take sides. They didn't do it to hurt you. Like in my first marriage my kids had no idea what was really going on.
I want you, if you treat your mom bad, to sit in a quit room and think how you would feel if your mom passed away today. I am not saying this to hurt you, this is so you can wake up and realize how you would feel. The guilt will eat at you everyday. I am thankful I wasn't mean to my mom, doesn't help with the pain of not having her around, but you really don't want that guilt.
This is for the other parents, do not talk bad about your ex spouses in front of your children, and if you do shame on you. If the child will need there mother and you have alienated them from there parent
It really makes me very angry when I witness this. and don't think it will never happen to you, that is what I always thought. My mom won't die for a very long time, but one day I walked passed her room and witnessed her boyfriend shoot her in the head. It was the worse day of my life, and believe me I have had some bad days, and I was 3 months pregnant and all alone. Wake up, no one knows how long they have on this earth, and when there gone, there gone